tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1137710528742876056.post1096882658201019059..comments2013-12-03T07:15:49.002-08:00Comments on OVER THE STORY: SHOW ME YOURS AND I'LL SHOW YOU MINEOver The Storyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05521498796960722499noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1137710528742876056.post-12420943111771569272010-05-03T09:10:17.679-07:002010-05-03T09:10:17.679-07:00Thank you, we are glad that this piece rings true ...Thank you, we are glad that this piece rings true for you. <br /><br />Excellent question. I think that the pain is a combo deal; what you've had to give up in terms of the dream you may have had for the relationship, and its loss. But on a deeper level, I think the "pain" speaks more to what it says about the person experiencing it. Many times its not the pain of loss for a particular person but more so what we think that loss says about who we are. We take the loss personally, feeling that there is something wrong with us, not realizing that there is freedom in recognizing our part in a relationship failure. Once we can see ourselves more clearly from an objective standpoint, the stinging pain is gone.. there may still be a dull pain however, lol. <br /><br />So, Al tell me, how have you seen "Show Me Yours and I'll Show You Mine" play out in your life?Alisahttp://overthestory.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1137710528742876056.post-57797013611576713342010-05-02T19:11:05.378-07:002010-05-02T19:11:05.378-07:00You have captured it precisely. Not one word of un...You have captured it precisely. Not one word of untruth. An exceptional piece.<br /><br />I wonder though; where does this "pain" you speak of come from? Is it because of what you've had to give up or what you'll no longer be getting?"THIS IS AL."https://www.blogger.com/profile/00483186701456643347noreply@blogger.com